I don't have a pic for this but it applies to a Jw I know: "You might be a jw if you were dux of your school but fix cash registers for a living."
Or you could say "wash windows".
I don't have a pic for this but it applies to a Jw I know: "You might be a jw if you were dux of your school but fix cash registers for a living."
Or you could say "wash windows".
it seems every cong seems to have some guy who is 35 and never had a job or moved out of mom and dads basement.. i knew a guy who just hand out magazines at work so he would get eventually fired and could sleep in till noon everyday.
of course his elder father though he was a real matyr cause he kept losing jobs for jehovah.
i have an electrican friend who apprenticed some jw kid till he got his ticket and he quit him to pioneering.
A guy who got into eBay and was kicked off for selling dodgy products. Before that he folded junk mail for a living as a result of minimum education. He built his eBay business up to the point where he bought land and built a house then when it all came crashing down as a result of his shady practices he lost it all and now is nearly 40, driving a taxi a couple times a week n living with his mum. Has never had a girlfriend.
sometimes this sounds good...but....forever?
forever in a jw idea of perfection?
does this mean no sports, or detective tv shows, or bad neighborhoods?
And who will do all the drudge jobs? Cleaning sewers, digging holes, lifting heavy things etc? In a paradise everyone gets to do what they want, right? So who's gonna do all the nasty jobs no one wants to do without some sort of incentives?
in another thread, one of our members made a comment that caught my attention.. i have been trying to put my finger on a practice amongst the org and witnesses in general.... as soon as someone does something well, accomplishes something, or excels at something, the atmosphere effectiveley 'kicks them in the gut' to bring them down.. anything that makes a person grow or develop is blatently discouraged and therefore self esteem is squashed!.
the constant message telling a witness to be 'humble' is designed to suck any sense of growth or 'betterment' out of a person..... therefore this leaves the average witness to be a blubbering mess of insecurity and instability completely dependant on the organization...kind of like a 'battered-wife' scenario.... .
The latest wt article dissected by Blondie epitomizes the organisation's telling everyone how much they suck.
i'm sure we could all write long paragraphs about this question, but in a few words, what is your biggest regret, or frustration in life due to being a witness?.
what missed opportunities did it cost you?
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That I didn't use that time to develop myself as an artist and writer. That I didn't save all that money I made when I was younger for a house rather than spending it all on clothes and shoes for the meetings and witnessing. That I've developed chronic clinical depression from my years in the cult and may never recover. Years of fights with mum and dad over Christmas, birthdays, voting, and the things that make humans into a community. The stress I gave my parents.
comments you will not hear at the 05-11-2014 wt study (march 15, 2014, pages 7-11)(self-sacrifice).
review comments will be headed outside the boxes.
wt material from today's wt will be in quote boxes.
So Adam acted out of a selfish desire to please his wife? How is wanting to please another person selfish? I thought pleasing other people was the opposite of selfish. They just redefine words as it pleases them.
how many jw suicides can you recall?.
is it more common than the rest of society?.
i personally know of 5.
Even one is too many. Of all the people I've known iny life, more jws than non jws have taken their lives.
in another thread, one of our members made a comment that caught my attention.. i have been trying to put my finger on a practice amongst the org and witnesses in general.... as soon as someone does something well, accomplishes something, or excels at something, the atmosphere effectiveley 'kicks them in the gut' to bring them down.. anything that makes a person grow or develop is blatently discouraged and therefore self esteem is squashed!.
the constant message telling a witness to be 'humble' is designed to suck any sense of growth or 'betterment' out of a person..... therefore this leaves the average witness to be a blubbering mess of insecurity and instability completely dependant on the organization...kind of like a 'battered-wife' scenario.... .
We call it tall poppy syndrome in Australia but jws have taken it to the nth degree.
this is how a do explained the family business policy re relatives of df/da members.. he said that the expression, "necessary family business," is really not a scriptural term.
it is nowhere found in the bible.
but, out of the kindness of the gb's hearts, they have gone beyond what is written and allowed association among families for necessary business.
I HATE THEM SO FRIGGIN MUCH! Scheming, lying, hypocrites!
so many at my wife's hall have rushed to buy i-pads,androids etc for use in servicetm and at the hall.. most know little or nothing about how to use them but have joined the stampede to jw.org tm and the reinvention of the wtbts.. it prompted one elder at my wife's hall to have a seminar at his house to explain how to use them in service and at the hall.. how exciting.... one 80 year old pioneer woman will be there with her new toy.. as a distraction it seems to be working quite well.
no need to worry about 1914 or other issues.. they are all nuts and getting nuttier....
I remember when they made the switch to ipads and said most stuff would now be online. I was still a jw at the time, but I remember thinking about how this move would marginalize all those jws in very poor countries who don't have running water, let alone ipads.